We don't know what to do about favors. We are considering little potted plants or truffle boxes. (We will assemble the boxes and put ribbon on them).

I would nix anything perishable like potted flowers—it’s hard to transport them—dirt spills in the car…assembling 125 little boxes is only a great idea if you love love love little projects like that. Favors that aren’t eaten immediately often are taken home and given to the kids….. so, do a favor if you have something that really excites you…and it’s ok if your favor is just a great party with free booze and food and dancing for the day!

Auntie Dana says have fun with favors IF it pleases you and let it go if it makes you feel stressed.